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Two are better than one because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not easily broken.
-Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 NIV
This passage of the Bible found its way into our wedding ceremony because of its peculiar ending. Its author, King Solomon, was arguably the wisest man ever alive. In this passage he discusses the importance of companionship where “two are better than one.” He holds this theme until he gets to the end and suddenly changes course with, “A cord of three strands is not easily broken.”
Theologians argue back and forth about whether this particular sentence carries any special significance. I don’t care about them or their arguments. In my life, this last sentence of King Solomon’s train of thought holds special meaning. In my life, God is that third strand. I find that the closer we draw to Him, the more we grow in love, and the stronger our relationship becomes. If I can offer one piece of advice for a good marriage, it is this: Make God as much a part of your life as eating and drinking. Pray regularly. Read the Bible daily. And, if you are not familiar with it, read Song of Songs (aka Song of Solomon). It is Solomon’s dialogue between himself and his lover. It is sensual, playful, joyful, and at times, even erotic. Highly recommended reading for newlyweds! May God Bless you richly in your new chapter of life!
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